Why would a guy act so into me then stop and ghost me? I’m guessing if you are reading this post, some guy did this to you. You blame yourself even if you can’t find anything to point to that would cause this. If that doesn’t appeal to you, then you know he’s not the right guy.
Then he pulls away and you are left wondering what the heck happened. A man who is very busy proving himself in his career or loving his work, that’s his first priority. Which automatically means you are NOT his top priority.
When you are in a relationship you have to consider the other persons feelings, wants and desires. Men do this thinking it’s nicer and less confrontational than some ugly emotional scene when you realize he’s not going to stick around. However, longer than 7 – 10 days doesn’t bode well.
If you’ve been seeing a guy for several weeks and everything is going beautifully, then he suddenly disappears, there’s one more possible reason. A lot of men need space to figure out emotional issues. He’s withdrawn because he’s out and is no longer interested.
If you’ve only had a few dates it can be a disappointment, but not that big a deal.