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‘He’d have to have good facial features, particularly nice eyes and, to seal the deal, a wide bum and thick legs to carry him around.’ Heidi says it is the dichotomy of soft and strong she finds so titillating.‘Fat men are big compared to me and yet there’s a vulnerability to them because they’re not falling in line with societal standards.If I suspect a man has a âwoe is me, I’m fatâ attitude, I wouldn’t get involved.But if he considered himself a Big Handsome Man, then I would be interested.
A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.When men date fat women, they are called âfeedersâ and get pleasure from feeding her and being dominant. Another explanation could be they have a fetish for fat flaps or âpannusâ, which are hanging flaps of adipose tissue.’ Whatever the explanation, these women are at least challenging the idea that thin is the epitome of attraction (although most men admit a fleshy, imperfect handful is far sexier than a boney, veiny limb).Dr Swami says we’re told women should be slim yet busty and that men should look like Brad Pitt.‘I often get asked the age-old âDon’t you worry about their health? ‘I tell them eating a healthy, balanced diet and being active should be to achieve health and not weight loss.I do not advocate a man being sedentary and eating junk food.’ Feeding a fetish But, aside from simply enjoying the company of an upbeat, overweight, yet active, fruit-scoffing man, Dr Swami says it’s likely female fat admirers may have dominance issues.Our fave ‘big’ name celebrities It seems Eminem has had too many M&Ms â he has reportedly ballooned in weight and is now a recluse.The Gladiator days are long gone for Russell Crowe, while Leonardo Di Caprio has recently been sporting an unsightly muffin top on Californian beaches.Maybe they also think that a foreign woman might expect from their man that he’s telling his feelings straight out several times a day, something a shy Japanese man just won’t do.Another problem is that many of the Japanese men seem to be afraid of their English ability and thus fail to approach a foreign woman.Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.stay home, take care of the kids, always pour new alcohol into his empty glass etc.).