Becoming confident in dating
I work in a big wheelchair friendly office building where I have to go from room to room a lot.
About a year ago I started wearing long leg braces and using crutches to maneuver around the building.
I guess it’s just hard for some men to commit to a relationship with a handicapped girl.
Most of the reasons I have been given for not dating paraplegic girls are based on false beliefs.
I’ve become used to wearing pantyhose too which I never used to do.
Not having any feeling in my legs or feet I didn’t know my shoe was off until I noticed the man kept looking down. They like to see how a handicapped girl moves her legs with her hands getting out of a car, and things like that. After the man noticed my red face, he quickly looked away, fumbling around reaching for my shoe. He looked so cute now blushing just as much as I was.
I looked too and could see the pink polish on my toenails through my tan pantyhose. This man had to see me pick my leg up with my hands and get my foot back on the footrest of the wheelchair. Sometimes, when I know I have an audience, I put on a little show. I thanked him and pulled my leg up by lifting under one knee. I hooked my toes with the shoe and pulled it onto the heel of my foot. We both made our apologies and started talking about where we were going, what our jobs were, who we knew and things like that. Jeff asked me if would like to watch the game that night with him at a bar a few blocks from the office. I would love to go on a date with this handsome, polite man. I’m also very cautious of guys only interested in dating paraplegic girls.
The Men Provement Podcast: Episode #134This is episode #134 of The Men Provement Podcast.
In this episode, I talk with Robert Kandell, the relationship expert.